Radically Living, Quietly Dying: Breaking the Cycle of Shame


By Mike Chong Perkinson

Mike Chong Perkinson’s new book, Radically Living, Quietly Dying, is an odyssey from lostness to homecoming. Follow the mile markers he leaves because it’s a journey many take. But like a seasoned combat leader, Mike identifies the land mines and setbacks, and then he skillfully leads you homeward to the arms of a waiting Father who calls you by name. Take that journey. You will never be the same.

Dr. Wayne Cordeiro
Author / Pastor of New Hope Church and College
Oregon & Hawaii

There are pastors, leaders, and people in our congregations and in our communities who stay in the darkness of what haunts them in the basement of their minds. They are unable to forgive or accept forgiveness, whether they are the victim or the victimizer. Many choose to stay in the pain and say they would rather take that experience to the grave with them. Pastor Mike has opened the door of his heart for us to walk with him through this book for the healing and deliverance of our souls.

Kenny Martin
Bishop of the Free Methodist Church USA
Author of Capturing Destiny: How to Seize the Treasure Within

In many ways, you are about to read the real-life journey of someone who has walked through Psalm 23 a few times. Pastor Mike was willing to not only go through his dark valley, but what you have in your hand is a loving guide to help you navigate yours. Whether the pain described in this book is likened to yours or you are in a place to help others through their trauma, you have been given a gift and a guide in this book. When you read this book, you will realize you are loved and not alone. And this is a book every pastor, leader, family, and friend should have. Thanks, Pastor Mike, for giving us a safe space to share, be accepted, be seen, and be helped.

Rev. Dr. Fraser Venter
Strategic Catalyst for Love-Driven Justice, Free Methodist Church USA

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